Be The Light At The End of The Tunnel, Look for The Rainbow

Wednesday, November 9, 2016

When it rains, dance. Things are only as gloomy as you allow them to be ✨ Always look for the rainbow in a gray sky.

November 9, 2016 was supposed to be like waking up on Christmas morning. Going to bed with anxious nerves, not knowing how to feel, upset about drama – which could easily be associated with family drama surrounding the holidays – yet, this is the polar opposite of how I felt, and still feel in this moment as I type these words.
I woke up with tears in my eyes. I went to be reminding myself of how grateful I am for everything in my life, reminding myself to focus on the positives, and that maybe, just maybe, when I woke up in the morning, it would all be okay, and we as a collective population will make the correct decision.

I was wrong. I sat up in my bed, on my phone for 30 minutes, staring at my phone. Reading all of the positive and hopeful messages on social media, I thought that this would inspire me enough to get out of bed and move forward, but it was not. The tears in my eyes lingered, and as I dragged myself out of bed, I felt the weight of the world on my chest. I moped to the bathroom, continued with my daily routine, and trying to remember the hope, inspiration, and excitement that I had just 24 hours prior.
Yet, with everything going on, and this nightmare-like reality that we are currently in, all I can manage to say is thank you.
Thank you to all of the millennials who saw a future in a woman who has inspired me for years, and who I felt was best fit for the position of President.
Thank you to all of these beautiful souls who are fighting for hope and positivity on social media, a place that is often buried with hate and disrespect. I am now a member of several groups on social media that encourage women’s rights, that inspire me daily, and that have people from across the world that are sharing their stories of how we will move forward, how we will persevere.
Thank you to the endless support of family and friends, who can all come together for causes that will better our state.
Thank you to the people of our state, a state where I am proud to call home, and that I love.

I understand not everyone is able to see this yet. I understand that this is going to take time. I understand that this is not a permanent fix.
Rather, it is my way of moving forward. It is my way of changing my mindset, to focus on gratitude, to focus on what I know is right in my heart and mind, to focus on the blessings I have received in my 23 years of life, and make sure that all of these things are available to all people moving forward. Education, housing, food, freedom. These are our rights as Americans, our rights as humans. Each individual in this country deserves equal rights. Just because the election is over, does not mean our fight is. We will continue to rise, to break the glass ceiling, to move forward for all, together.
No matter your political preference, we are all humans. We are all breathing, moving, beings with intentions, with ideas, with opinions, with opportunities. Opportunities that are able to turn into movements, and inspirations to others, and, best of all, change. So as I write this, not know who will read it, I am grateful for being able to write it. For being able to voice my opinions, and to have an outlet.

Feel the emotions, voice your opinions, share your views, and receive energy from others, but rather than turning that energy into negative comments or anger, turn it into positivity and light. Because right now, more than ever, we need to be the light; the light that leads our future, the light that will still shine bright when our grandchildren vote for their next president.

And yet, even on my way, all I could do was complain.
Complain about traffic, complain about how far away my work is from my house,
etc. But, I am fortunate to drive every morning to a job I love. I am fortunate
enough to have a job. I am fortunate enough to have a car. And I am beyond
grateful for all of this. And it is with this daily gratitude, that I will
manifest more positive energy, and work to come out of this funk, and work to
help, and to find a change, and to do my part as a human, as a spiritual being,
as a citizen of the United States of America.
"I've had successes and setbacks and sometimes painful ones. Many of you are at the beginning of
your professional, public, and political careers — you will have successes and setbacks too.
This loss hurts, but please never stop believing that fighting for what's right is worth it." - HRC


Let's Get Away! | Packing Must Haves

Friday, April 15, 2016

Traveling brings out emotions that a lot of other things in life don’t. You can go from an overly excited kid in a candy store, to anxious because you don’t know what to pack, suffering from the panic of feeling like you forgot something, and then the whirlwind that your entire trip is all over in an instant.

Luckily, the internet is making traveling easier. Not only can you plan your entire trip itinerary by the click of a few buttons, but with the miracle of apps like Pinterest, we have access to premade packing lists, and travel itineraries based on city at the tip of our fingertips.

Along with Pinterest packing tips and advice on the cutest places to see and eat at, places like Air BnB and HomeAway have blown up because they give you a true sense of how it is to live in that city, and experience life as someone more than just a tourist. Don’t get me wrong, I love being a tourist, especially in my own city, but there is something comforting about staying in a house or apartment that makes traveling that much easier and calming.

Weekend getaways are my weakness. If I anyone says they want to go somewhere, I am the first to say yes! I think they are the perfect amount of escape and since they are only for the weekend, they are extremely budget friendly, especially if you get a whole group together.

Here are a few of my must have items I will definitely be packing on my weekend getaways and my upcoming Euro trip!


What are you must have packing essentials?
Memorial Day is just around the corner, be sure to plan your weekend get away now at HomeAway!
 If you’re looking for sunshine you have to check out Pensacola Beach – the area is popular this time of year for a reason!

Masters of Taste | Recap/Review

Wednesday, April 6, 2016

This past weekend, I was lucky enough to attend the first ever Masters of Taste in LA. It was hosted at the Rose Bowl, and I was able to hang out during set up, and stay until close. Let me tell you, I had a good time. 

I had a lot of regards. I thought it was going to be like Tacolandia, the last "all you can eat" type event I went to in LA, and I did not have the best of experiences there. I was expecting lines, more lines, small portions, and not a lot of different foods. 


Masters of Taste was like all food events I have ever gone to, with a huge splash of luxury. There were 40 chefs and restaurants and almost 25 cocktails and alcohol companies. Talk about YUM.

Since we got there a little early, we approached a few unprepared booths. We decided to have a seat, claim our bench, and wait around until the event really began. VIP opened at 3, but most booths weren't fully set up until 4, so I would say that the general admission ticket is good enough, and not to worry about spending the extra money on VIP.

Parking was free, but we decided to Uber because, alcohol. There was lots of tacos, appetizers, and lots and lots of drinks. 

Not to play favorites, but The Raymond definitely won Masters of Taste in my book. Every hour they had a different Mezcal cocktail and taco pairing. I had two of them and they were both perfect. Just makes me want to visit them for their happy hour (which I have heard is out of this world).

Of course, the event would not have been the same without the people I went with, my amazing coworkers. I am so beyond lucky to have a job that allowed me to attend this event, enjoy some incredible company, and have the most fun filled, and perfect Sunday.

Before leaving, we hit up some of our favorite booths to thank them, and much to our surprise, or at least mine, we left with treats. From pastry goodie bags, to coconut waters, I ended up having so many things in my hands that I took a garbage bag and filled it with everything else. Judge me, I don't mind, I walked out of there with so many free samples I was so happy. Monday was like Masters of Taste part 2 with all of the goodies I had. 

Thank you, Masters of Taste for an incredible event! I can't see what this year's event has taught to make next year's even bigger, better, and more luxurious. 

Bloggers Gonna Blog

Thursday, March 31, 2016

Today I received a snapchat message in response to this outfit:

It said "you have got to start blogging about these outfits... I'm serious"
Well! Ask and you shall receive, so shoutout to my beautiful sorority sister who did, because now I can have content to post everyday! As long as you don't mind more mirror pics than fancy taken photos. I will let you know where I got the clothes from, where I wore it to, along with an overall recap/summary of my day. Of course, if it is a more eventful day, or I have a lot of opinions that day, I will write a separate blog post regarding whatever topic is currently on my mind, as I have been lately.

Sweater/Poncho: Debut (I got mine from Kinsley)
Black lace bra: PINK Victoria Secret 
Black tank: H&M
Leggings: Fabletics
Necklace: boutique store in Laguna Beach
Sunglasses: QUAY

Some Bunny Loves Easter

Sunday, March 27, 2016

It is crazy to think that a year ago I was on my last spring break, and was preparing to graduate from college. Now, I look back at my year, and I have achieved so much more than I could have ever thought possible.

Granted, I am not making as much money as I would like to be and I am still living at home, but none the less, I am happy, and currently that is way more than I could ever ask for.

Counting my blessings has never ever been something I did. I made fun of that whole #blessed phase, and just kind of took what was given to me, said thank you, and went on with my life. But now, when I look back, it all is kind of coming together and I truly am grateful for everything that I have and that makes me even more excited for what the future holds.

All of this reflection came right in time for Easter, which in my family, like every other holiday, is just a competition for Thanksgiving. Not only do we out do our selves with food, but we focus on gratitudes, something that forever grounds me, and brings me back to the moment, to focus on what really matters, what I want out of life, and what I am looking forward to more of.

This Easter, as we went around the table, hope for peace and family were mentioned multiple times. I, personally said I was thankful for life lessons, opportunities, and every day life. It truly is something when you step back and think about day to day life, and how instantaneous it can all change, for better or for worse.

In this moment, hours and too many plates of food later, I am thankful for laughs and loving people. I am as single as it can get, yet I feel so incredibly loved, and that has been something I have been working on for awhile, because I am a firm believer that if you don't love yourself, you won't see others' love for you. And that has been showing more and more lately, which I could not be happier about.

I hope you had an incr-egg-ible (see what I did there) Easter, and if you don't celebrate Easter, I hope you had an amazing Sunday Funday that recharged you for an even better week ahead. We are almost in April! How crazy is that?!


Saturday, March 26, 2016

Need a weekend get away from LA? Craving some amazing and pretty basic hikes? Want to go to the cutest tequila bar with delicious Mexican food? You need to go to Ojai right now. I went about a month ago, and have been missing this adorable little town more than words.

There is something incredible about weekend getaways. They are just enough to escape reality and day to day life, but leave you with this incredible feeling of gratitude and serenity upon your return.

With my upcoming trip to Europe in just over two months, I sit here with excitement for that two week trip, but still crave more and more of theses getaways that are just a drive away.

From hiking, to brunching, to shopping, this weekend had it all, and was ended with a beautiful waterfall. Thanks, Rach for being my travel buddy!